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Margaret Paul December 31, We all have a need to feel special, but it's how we go about getting the need met that can be either dysfunctional or healthy.

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It is not the need that is dysfunctional, it is how we Woman fucking Dumas about getting the need met that can be either dysfunctional or healthy. It is dysfunctional when we make others responsible for making us feel special. When others have to give us attention, compliment us, seek us out and attend to our wants and needs Wanting to feel special order for us to feel special, our behavior is dysfunctional.

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No, you are special. Thinking from a universal perspective, most chances at life do not come to fruition. Simply beating the odds and living is itself special, as are​. Special for being who she really is, special in the eyes of the man she loves. But, what exactly does feeling special mean? Men have told us over and over that. › sections › editorial › item › we-all-want-to.

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Actually, some people feel frustrated about not being important enough and, as a consequence, consider themselves ordinary and not special. “It is astonishing how little one feels alone when one loves.” ~John Bulwer. If there's one thing we all want, it's to feel loved. We want to feel deeply connected to. We're all wired to crave a sense of belonging and to be accepted by our peers. Being seen and recognized by others makes us feel safe on an.

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People were no longer pulling away from her, resisting her, or defending themselves against her demands for attention.

According to the theory of needs of the American psychologist Abraham Maslow, men and women are beings who have to satisfy a series of. by Roger Housden. Comparison is one of the ways the ego solidifies itself — either by making us feel special or small, which are two sides of the same coin. And they often act out in ways that adversely affect their relationships. They are are the folks who are always altering menus when ordering in a.

Her behavior naturally and gradually changed with others when she was treating herself as a special person. Dr. Photo by Ben White.