Truly putting yourself out there and meeting people can be super hard, let alone meeting people you actually legitimately like enough to start a relationship. Sometimes, you want to take things into your own hands and actively look for a new partner on your own schedule.
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Sit at the bar.
Most of us spend a good bit of time and money out at bars socializing and hoping to meet someone special.